Friday, May 4, 2012

A Separation

The theme of family struggle is apparent in almost every film ever made, but in Asghar Farhadi’s A Separation, an Iranian film which came out last year, this theme plays out in the most realistic and universal way. It leaves the audience in a pit of silence and enraptures the soul, body and mind to a point where one is unsure if they are in a seat in a cold theater or if they are in the hot and stuffy Iranian courthouse. This movie shows how the people of Iran are made up of just that -- people; nothing more, nothing less. All the characters in this film are inherently good. There is no villain, except for the governmental institution itself. But even the judge with whom the family has to so frequently deal with, has a sense of true humanity. He aims to be as fair as possible while still abiding by all of the religious restrictions.

The film opens as a point of view shot from the eyes of the judge. He is listening to the quarrels of the main couple as they argue about whether or not Nader (Peyman Maodi) will consent to the divorce his wife Simin (Leila Hatami), has requested. Simin wants to leave Iran on the limited visa their family has so that their daughter, Termeh, played by Asghar Farhadi's real daughter, Sarina Farhadi, will not have to grow up under the oppressions of the Iranian government. Nader refuses to leave as he has to take care of his father who has alzheimer's. Nader believes that Iran is a fine place for Termeh to grow up. This opening shot is a bold one. It feels so authentic due in large part to the two actors. But we as the audience are instantly put into this mindset of the objective mediator and this too adds to the authenticity of the first scene. The viewer is thrown into the most stressful position and feels obligated to judge these people who both seem to be making a legitimate case for themselves and for their daughter. The films builds from this moment on. The disagreements continue throughout and the perspectives and problems become more complicated and more numerous. Each character that the audience is introduced to has a different side to this one rather complicated story,

The most impressive feat that Farhadi is able to accomplish is that of empathy. This film has five or more characters leading the way and telling different parts of the story and all of them never waiver in strength and necessity. The story as a whole is character driven and connecting with each one comes naturally. They are pitted against each other and each have their own pivotal character flaws but it is the flaws that are so identifiable and create the greater sense of connection. They are all ultimately trying to do the right thing.

The women in this film give the strongest performances. The daughter Termeh, is stuck in the middle of her parents' argument and is the most genuine one, holding her father to his word. Her performance is one that brings up the rawest of emotions and aids the other characters in doing the same. It is through Termeh that it becomes clear how much this film is about the human condition; it is about the innate yearning for love and the simplicity that can come with truth and trust. From that first point of view shot, the film opens itself up and takes the viewer on a confusing journey through the lives of the people of Iran.

The last shot of the film is even more chilling than the first. With independent films the endings often are left open ended and can happen unexpectedly or in an abrupt fashion. This film adheres to this model, but the story is so all encompassing that when it comes time for the credits to roll, the feeling of a sort of separation anxiety comes through. Farhadi must have known that his film would be one that leaves the audience missing and worrying about the characters because he lets the credits roll over the last shot for longer than usual. The audience is left to watch Nader and Simin waiting in what is now a familiar, crowded courthouse. They stand on opposite sides of the screen and a milky glass wall divides them even further. They stand alone, as they have done the entire time, disconnected from their government and disconnected from each other.